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today was a good illustration of the difficulty I have , to fully understand your concerns 1 you complain that" for the whole week we didn't have sex ". I arrived monday you arrived afterschool, tues , you came after your school, I had a biz dinner wed we all went to williamsburg . , adn thurs I left at 8. after meetings since 530. after not taking the initiavive on your own i explained that i would now train it.. it woudl take an hour or more each time, we didn't have any real time, but that fact gets drowned in your complaints. and over the previous weekend I repeatedly said how difficult the next few weeks would be. that also gets lost. 2. You didn't get the only thing you asked for your birthday, Thursday is not friday, . ok. 3. we don;t have enough sex, 4. you always comment about older women , it makes me insecure . 5 you told me you don't like toys. . 6 you told me not to do yoga. 7, i can't go to school because of how you made me feel. and look. 8 . I had a bad dream about ... 9. when you tell me these things what is the point you just make me feel bad. . 10 . yes you tell me many times a day how much you love me , but you said jessca was 35 , how does that make me feel. I know it is difficult to be aprt. I would ask that you try to stop complaining about things and that if something bothers you , lets try to make it better, I love you

you are missing the message. why are you complaing. 9???????99? what is the real issue??? can you not see.

I see the message, stop complaining, and work on things. But you are missing the message too: it can not be only my effort if we want to have a good sex life.

Things that you mentioned under #1 say that you did not have time, however whenever I say that to you, you find it "ridiculous", I came from school very early on thur, you were busy, however you did find time for someone else in your massage room that day.