giving in control

Two questions. ..Since I know you will have thinking time on the plane.

The broad answer you came up with on thursday is the right one for me, but there is a piece missing from the 'happy giving in control' theory. What is it? Is part of it that the giving must be directed in more than one direction in order to retain the control?

And next question: Since the brain mechanisms of a person in love are so similar to the brain of a person with OCD, can SRIs 'cure' or prevent love by increasing serotonin levels?

Have a good trip!