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" i had a dream that we had a child ". ?=A0 that will start her talking !

I call this the Martin Luther king approach—making up a dream

It allows raising sensitive subjects while blaming ones subconscious.=/div>

What does she mean by secure? Financial? Mentored? Compani=nship? safety. Net? Shoulder to cry on?

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secure to her is a dynamic concept. . yo= are to be there ALWAYS in spirit if not in body. . thin= about a religious persons view of god. he/she is there =n good times bad times etc. can talk to , without getting an a=swer. . is protective though illusionary. I sugget=you propose an experiment. . lets have this arrangement =C2 I will be there every day you need me to be text, phone etc.=C2 I will be diligent and reliable. . we see ea=h other .... times per month, go on vacation , once every...=C2 and do our best to enjou each other , at the=end of the year we look back to see if it should continue be m=ified or die. . bayesian . :)