Re: She inquires-r u mad at me?
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I guess your preferred SAT answer was -- none of the above
Unclear what I'm mad at that I can say
Am I furious because
She thinks she plans to run off w China guy
She doesn't drop all to rendezvous w me
She is lazy and not good on paper
She asked whether I had made any fun plans in ny
I asked whether she was interested in dinner w Woody. She seemed impressed.
I asked whether she thought she could be presentable.
Call?
May be hard where i am.
Enthusiasm for dinner w woodie.
alternative includes you or not. =A0if not. no dinner with woody. no negotiation. though it appears = might be late with that advice.
Don't follow
you need to decide if you want to try to ha=e your cake? family ,and eat it
too. long discussions were her are no= fruitful. alternatively, this is
what i want with few modifications , if not=, we both have othe roptions.
I will call.
U r convincing me right Strategy is out.
Right now I can't call question and=get her to agree to be next mrs.
And if I did succeed not sure I'd w=nt without more evidence to take big
step out.
So I thought strategy was no whining, no we=kness happy making clear intense
interest and attractiveness and see where i= led with no tolerance for
disrespect but no big demands.
does your "no whining " exu=e power or do you merely prefer to stay
closer in touch with your feminine si=e
I think u are right about power and endeavo=ing to adjust.
There has been power imbalance to date and =n some ways now around my being
married.
I like getting mad.
I just think getting mad without grounds is=weak.
I'm very open to your wisdom but th=nk my current strategy of showing I care being amusing beating up on her work to sho= firmness and then saying "u can't have it all—lots of w=rmth support and help from Larry but a partner to please mom." Bye. Come back if w=nt to be sensible works.
But given her not wrong grievances can4)=804ot leap to this.
you are on the ground I m at 30k ft =C2. you cant get away from having to
decide your goal. keeping=it on ice. will i believe . weaken the whole
relationship. . or = just tell her , what i want is to stay married
see you twice a month. have a great t=me . and revisit this in 9 mpnths.
The latter she will reject out of hand.Q=A0 She thinks it was the plan and I
didn't show often enough. She=is alas right.
She I think is eager to move on w life bein= 35.
I suspect she needs to learn that alternati=es suck
Im sure she would like.. but.. what would she=say if you committed to riding off into the sunset
No I'd guess but would pocket the option.
I II Call tmrw. Trying to think thru.
Think that married guy without a billion dealing w a serious professio=al in her mind has to be tactically different than u and your pals with ex=tic immigrants.
Also think various risks around China aspect u are underestimating.4,=A0
Not sure where it all shakes out. You are surely right on no whining a=d take game theory approach. But not sure laying down law is quite right.=C24>
I didnt realize that the chinese were no longer considered=exotic immigrants. she is a woman first. . =C24k i dont believe in laying down the law. ? i b=lieve in making it clear that you are powerful. . laying down the la= , can also be whining. ie you cant do that =gain because it really upsets me / tomror ok