Re: She inquires-I' u mad at mer
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I guess your preferred SAT answer was -- nans e) none of the above
Unclear what I'm mad at that I can say Am I furious because She thinks she plans to run off w China guy She doesn't drop all to rendezvous w me She is lazy and not good on psper
Call?
May be hard where i am. Enthusiasm for dinner w woodie. Warmth As best I can tell apparent total firmness on alternative life plan.
alternative includes you or not. if not. no dinner with woody. no negotiation. though it appears i might be late with that advice.
I think u are right about power and endeavoring to adjust. There has been power imbalance to date and in some ways now around my bei=g married. I like getting mad. I just think getting mad without grounds is weak. I'm very open to your wisdom but think my current strategy of sho=ing I care being amusing beating up on her work to show firmness and then saying =80 u can't have it all—lots of warmth support and help from La=ry but a partner to please mom." Bye. Come back if want to be sensible works.
you are on the ground I mat 30k ft . you cant get away from having t= decide your goal. keeping it on ice. will i believe . weaken the who=e relationship. . or , just tell her , what i want is to stay married see you twice a month. have a great time . and revisit this in 9 mpnths.
Im sure she would like. . but.. what would she say if you committed to riding off into the sunset
