Re: She inquires-r u mad at mer
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Unclear what I’m mad at that I can say
Am I furious because
She thinks she plans to run off w China guy
She doesn’t drop all to rendezvous w me
She is lazy and not good on psper
She asked whether I had made any fun plans in ny
I asked whether she was interested in dinner w Woody. She seemed impressed.
I asked whether she thought she could be presentable.
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I guess your preferred SAT answer was -- nans e) none of the above
Call?
May be hard where i am.
Enthusiasm for dinner w woodie.
Warmth
As best I can tell apparent total firmness on alternative life plan.
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alternative includes you or not. if not. no dinner with woody. no negotiation. though it appears i might be late with that advice.
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I think u are right about power and endeavoring to adjust.
There has been power imbalance to date and in some ways now around my being
married.
I like getting mad.
I just think getting mad without grounds is weak.
I’m very open to your wisdom but think my current strategy of showing I care
being amusing beating up on her work to show firmness and then saying “u
can’t have it all—lots of warmth support and help from Larry but a partner
to please mom.” Bye. Come back if want to be sensible works.
But given her not wrong grievances can't leap to this.
The latter she will reject out of hand. She thinks it was the plan and I
didn’t show often enough. She is alas right.
She I think is eager to move on w life being 35.
I suspect she needs to learn that alternatives suck
you need to decide if you want to try to have your cake? family ,and eat it
too. long discussions were her are not fruitful. alternatively, this is
what i want with few modifications , if not, we both have othe roptions.
I will call.
U r convincing me right Strategy is out.
Right now I can't call question and get her to agree to be next mrs.
And if I did succeed not sure I'd want without more evidence to take big
step out.
So I thought strategy was no whining, no weakness happy making clear intense
interest and attractiveness and see where it led with no tolerance for
disrespect but no big demands.
you are on the ground I mat 30k ft . you cant get away from having to decide your goal. keeping it on ice. will i believe . weaken the whole relationship. . or , just tell her , what i want is to stay married see you twice a month. have a great time . and revisit this in 9 mpnths.
Im sure she would like. . but.. what would she say if you committed
to riding off into the sunset
No I'd guess but would pocket the option.
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