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What do you think about me asking an independent group. Judge fbi etc to do an investigation so as to separate truth from fiction?

I'd prefer to have an overview of all options and strategies. But, yes, something like that could work. Maybe better a big law firm, since they've become sexual matters arbiters. But again, total strategy. Everybody in these situations makes mistakes--and makes things worse--when they just throw stuff against the wall. You need something that you can execute against on an ongoing basis.