talk with Harry

How it came up I d=n't remember, but we ended up with a long -- and from my end very angr= -- discussion about the taxes and the marital trust. I told him tha= in 60 years, if I thought the children needed something I never once call=d in a financial professional to decide whether I should provide it, and t=at I felt it was utterly humiliating and disgraceful to treat the question=at hand that way. He was very calm and said that all he wanted was t= have a meeting about it. I told him there was nothing to discuss at=a meeting. We went on for a while, and finally agreed that I would t=Il Avi about it -- she knows nothing. I had been planning anyway to =eet her next week to talk about some of these things, so we can do that.

Almost a year of stress=about this.