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He s asking why I don't want to move in w him? I think I shouldn't =efer to the break up and moving out w from B. (As u said its a bad example=

What should I say then? That I don't want to live together before marri=ge?

tell him , =ou want to give yourself fully, unconditionaly, you would love to move =n .. he is asking you to take all the riskk , if he changes his mind, y=u have no place to go.. you would love to find a solution.. what doe= he suggest.

your response , is I like the idea of security, but what you are really ren=ing is me.. I don;t like that. my parents would not like it. I have nev=r met anyone like you and I am willing to risk alot to make it work. Im=willing to get engaged. I would then be your fiance instead of just a russ=in girlfriend,