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I had previously asked whether you wanted to be in the souse wiht so you could see for yourself , you have decided that=the help i asked for was petty. Can i get you anything , head ma=sage. IMI tea, was not important. though I said these are the small =hings i d appreciate. then when others gladly do as i ask , you feel in=ecure. you feel no compunction to spoling my birthday, because you d=n't like M, spoling my highly anticipated trip to new york, beca=se you overhear me talking on the phone and i according to you, said ba=y in kind tones. so you

threw a tantrum. no sex fun, no hug, you wanlke= out without saying goodbye. and today not only ask me to do as you put it=petty , things (petty is trite , trivial, what you asked was for me to tra=smit your words as they were coming out of my mouth, having me do somethin= i strongly detest, which i did immediately without argumnet, and even =hen, you couldn't stop, and had to ask for proof, and then more ( a=d you wonder where the idea that you are a spolied brat comes from„ ) . l=had asked if you wanted a conference call. the fact that you take offense =o the way people perceive you, you attribute to me. the fact and ive told =ou this mupltiple time, the more I say to defend you and your behavior, th= more i say, no, she really is a help, no, | , yo= will be seen to be weaker rather than stronger,if i was standing next to =ou and you told evryone in the most sincere of terms , doesn't jeffrey=look in great shape. would do nothing more that call attention to the f=ct that i am not, and suggest that i am in need of bullshit.

Ok, you are upset.

Please remember you offered to do this last night=so don't tell me I forced you into doing something you detest. I don&#=9;t think I was forcefull at all...you offered a call, I said why not an e=ail. I couldn't believe you really did something that thoughtful and s=lfless so I asked to see it. I said thank you many times because I know yo= did it for me and I know you didn't really understand what it meant o= agreed with the idea behind it but you still did it. Don't attack me =ecause of it now, take the credit. Frankly, it was a much better lesson th=n trying to argue with me or nag about my flaws. I got the message.

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the point is . I try and actually do what i can... when it comes to you , y=u refuse over and over. only thinking about yourself . I am not attacking =ou. at all. i am trying to get you to look in the mirror and see what i an= everyone else sees. I have done hundreds of things that i totally disa=ree with , to placate you. In fact alomost every day or at least every =eekend. what you now describe as thoughtful and selfless, started years a=o when you decided that you didn't want around,, No one is at the=house unless you agree, I eat the shitiest of food, and lead a life of = bus driver , with the same exact motivation that i had when i sent the em=il, I DO IT/// , ......you do not. THink of my reac=ion with the email and yours with

almost every day by your description , what you call thoughful and selfless=. no naps. sitting with others on the sofa. no no one in bed beside you watching movies. why did=i offer a call, ? because I was unhappy, because wanted to start a figh= , IN RESPONSE IN RESPONSE . what is it you don't understand