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Ok, you are upset.

Please remember you offered to do this last night=so don't tell me I forced you into doing something you detest. I don&#=9;t think I was forcefull at all...you offered a call, I said why not an e=ail. I couldn't believe you really did something that thoughtful and s=lfless so I asked to see it. I said thank you many times because I know yo= did it for me and I know you didn't really understand what it meant o= agreed with the idea behind it but you still did it. Don't attack me =ecause of it now, take the credit. Frankly, it was a much better lesson th=n trying to argue with me or nag about my flaws. I got the message.

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I had previously asked whether you wanted =o be in the house wiht svetlna so you could see for yourself , you have=decided that the help i asked for was petty. Can i get you anything , n=nnys head massage. sue's tea, was not important. though I said these a=e the small things i d appreciate. then when others gladly do as i ask = you feel insecure. you feel no compunction to spoling my birthday, =ecause you don't like=, spoling my highly anticipated trip to n=w york, because you overhear me talking on the phone and i according to=you, said baby in kind tones. so you threw a tantrum. no sex fun, no hu=, you wanlked out without saying goodbye. and today not only ask me to do =s you put it petty , things (petty is trite , trivial, what you asked was =or me to transmit your words as they were coming out of my mouth, having m= do something i strongly detest, which i did immediately without argumnet,=A0 and even then, you couldn't stop, and had to ask for proof, and the= more ( and you wonder where the idea that you are a spolied brat comes=from„ ) . I had asked if you wanted a conference call. the fact that you =ake offense to the way people perceive you, you attribute to me. the fact =nd ive told you this mupltiple time, the more I say to defend you and your=behavior, the more i say, no, she really is a help, no, she is my girlfri=nd, you will be seen to be weaker rather than stronger,if i was stan=ing next to you and you told evryone in the most sincere of terms , doesn&=39;t Jeffrey look in great shape.

the point is . I try and actually do what i can... when it comes to you , y=u refuse over and over. only thinking about yourself . I am not attacking =ou. at all. i am trying to get you to look in the mirror and see what i an= everyone else sees. I have done hundreds of things that i totally disa=ree with , to placate you. In fact alomost every day or at least every =eekend. what you now describe as thoughtful and selflless, started years a=o when you decided that you didn't want=around„ No one is at the=house unless you agree, I eat the shitiest of food, and lead a life of = bus driver, with the same exact motivation that i had when i sent the ern=il, I DO IT////-, v, sox, you do not. THink of my reac=ion with the email and yours with