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Did █████ stay in the apartment or at the house after I left ?

Do y=u realize it took years for me to get over the lies you told me regarding n the past (being in aspen, taking her to the palace, going to the mo=ies with her..)

I spent a lot of time talking to both=and about it. I used t= get sick every time I looked at 'r even heard her name because it re=inded me of those lies. It was not a secret to you or anybody else that I =ouldn't stand her. Now I was finally at a point where I could trust yo= not to do that again and I didn't mind having her around. But the mom=nt I left, you did it again - despite an agreement she was to leave on mon=ay, you decided to change her ticket at the last minute and not even tell =e about it until the next day (when I already knew she never came). When I=got to NY, she wasn't here and you were not answering your phones.

You don't like being accused of deception yet you don't even care=to explain how it is possible that this happened again...this is a tough ore for me to ignore...THIS is a very irritated nipple

i do not=want to argue with you.. I don't consider worth talking about. =I have no feelings for ., she is like , i needed help, thats it n= more. no less, . i have a monstrous amount of work in progress. I have=asked for your help . . the garage is a pigstye. I am no further ahead wit= landscape lights, dock, statue base, the house has dog shit and piss,I ha=e cleaned it up myself I , and not challenged you. I went through kitchen =nd house things without you , in an effort not to embarass you. espe=ailly in front of others. since before left on her vacation. you=wanted authority , no food, flowers, facial, helper, / i love you, =nd want you to be happy. I need help to reduce my workload, I think you=should re read your emails to me. I asked you to set aside time to talk , =ou chose not to, . brice valdson and , need to brought in to =elp , maybe to try out. story to do local things. kichen d=ors, etc. As I have tried to explain , an agreement has two parti=s, you have chosen not to fulfill your part, it is your prerogative, be=ides making soups, which were great , as you followed the recipe, (a disci=line that you abhor ) , healthy snacks, low cholesterol, food, house proje=ts , . I made a point not to argue, it has become silly I get angry, an= nothing changes, therefore taking getting angry out of the equation seems=to make sense, I have asked that you have a budget, it allows you to=see what you spend and on what. it is also a reflection of what actually g=ts done. you have chosen not to do it. no problem.. I love you , so wha= am i to do? ,, I need time to get my life in order , I would have hope= having you here would reduce my load ( not that load ). instead =f adding stress and conflicts.

Read you email. That is not a response to my email, you are ignoring wh=t I said and just go on about what YOU want and what errands there were to=run..

I obviously consider worth talking about. Did she stay at th= house?

we can talk about what YOU want like friends, i recognize you consider: worth talking about / I love you and want both of us to be happy.. I=will talk about: , all you want, I will answer any question in as muc= detail as you like, you have my word,, however after and only after we=deal with the vast unresolved problems that have long been on the table...=A0 I will not agree to sidetrack the conversation.