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Did dana stay in the apartment or at the house after I left ?

Do you realize it took years for me to get over the lies you told me regard=ng Dana in the past (being in aspen, taking her to the palace, going to th= movies with her..)

I spent a lot of time talking to both nan and christine about it. I used to=get sick every time I looked at Dana or even heard her name because it rem=nded me of those lies. It was not a secret to you or anybody else that I c=uldn't stand her. Now I was finally at a point where I could trust you=not to do that again and I didn't mind having her around. But the mome=t I left, you did it again - despite an agreement she was to leave on mond=y, you decided to change her ticket at the last minute and not even tell m= about it until the next day (when I already knew she never came). When I =ot to NY, she wasn't here and you were not answering your phones.

You don't like being accused of deception yet you don't even care t= explain how it is possible that this happened again...this is a tough one=for me to ignore...THIS is a very irritated nipple

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i do not want to argue with you.. I don't consider dana worth talking a=out. I have no feelings for dana. „ she is like kim, i needed help, th=ts it no more. no less, . i have a monstrous amount of work in progress.=A0 I have asked for your help . . the garage is a pigstye. I am no further=ahead with landscape lights, dock, statue base, the house has dog shit and=piss,I have cleaned it up myself I , and not challenged you. I went throug= kitchen and house things without you , in an effort not to embarass=you. especaillly in front of others. since before sarah left on her vac=tion. you wanted authoriity , no food, flowers, facial, helper, / i =ove you, and want you to be happy. I need help to reduce my workload, l=think you should re read your emails to me. I asked you to set aside time =o talk, you chose not to, . brice valdson, lynn and jojo, need to brou=ht in to help , maybe kim to try out. story to do local things.=A0 kichen doors, etc. As I have tried to explain , an agreement h=s two parties, you have chosen not to fulfill your part, it is your prerog=tive, besides making soups, which were great , as you followed the reci=e, (a discipline that you abhor ) , healthy snacks, low cholesterol, food,=house projects , . I made a point not to argue, it has become silly I g=t angry, and nothing changes, therefore taking getting angry out of the eq=ation seems to make sense, I have asked that you have a budget, it a=lows you to see what you spend and on what. it is also a reflection of wha= actually gets done. you have chosen not to do it. no problem.. I love =ou , so what am i to do? „ I need time to get my life in order , I wou=d have hoped having you here would reduce my load ( not that load =). instead of adding stress and conflicts.