Re: Ok

the question was asked imagine if you had your 18 year old daughter , ri=ht out of high school , come to your office and began to offer suggestion =o harry rich and darren on how they should run your business. ?

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Well, they should be pretty annoyed since this teenager had no financial ba=kground and suggested how they should run the business instead of just obs=rving, helping and learning how the business works! The example has little to do with our situation but I am flattered you are =omparing me to an 18 year old.

The mattress was a perfect example. It seems you are confusing my honesty a=d having your best interests in mind with an inability to make decisions a=d do certain things.

, Doug, and whoever else was involved just decided not to tell y=u, use your money and order a different mattress without you knowing the d=fference ( similar to Lance serving you store-bought eggs ) Apparently this was already done once in the PB house and they were going to do it again =n LSJ now.

I was the only one to confirm with you and make sure you get what you like = and instead of a thank you I got yelled at because I didn't give you =he ID number before asking a question. You said Karen would never do that,=she is experienced, understands how to get these things done and I know no=hing about mattresses so no need for me to be involved...

So without me being involved when would you find out you are sleeping on Ka=en's cheap mattress? At least I do my best to make sure you get what you like for your house, no= my best to do things quickly behind your back and get away with 'serv=ng you Marina market eggs' with a pat on the back.

Don't you thing there is slight chance there are other similar things h=ppening and the idea of my involvement caused such a passionate reaction b=cause you would have a much higher chance of finding out about them...

I don't know how you can say I do very little after stopping me when I =ried to do more..

I find your position very inconsistent and controlling; you just want to ke=p me in my place running mundane errands, keeping a house clean, washing d=shes and having a responsibility of a servant but not being able to do mor=

Holding the fact that you provide for me financially over my head is really=not fair. I am not here because of your money or your lifestyle. I am here=because of You and I would still be here if we were living in a studio apa=tment or under a bridge together... Since that is not the case and if I wa=t to be with you I can't afford not to accept your financial support a=d still keep up with this lifestyle. I already feel guilty about the fact =nd your holding it against me during arguments really makes it hard to swa=low.

To answer your question, I think my unwavering support and loyalty even dur=ng this period of time is quite a telling , and hopefully meaningful, sign=of my love and appreciation for being able to be a part of the life you le=d Thank you.

you still avoid the quesiton „ what do you do. i don't hold the fact t=at i support you over you head, i ask over and over, what itis that you ac=ually do..

with regard the mattress, its was just find out which ma=ress was where. and the details, A simple and clear question.. all else=is silly.. you say its silly after stopping you, that was last week, an= i reiieterate , i just want you to do as i asl to oprahize the fact that = ask you to do something is now controlling. is another example of b00000s=it, WHAT do you actuallly do.. in return for that lifestyle, which i do=believe is not that important to you. do you spend time trying to be helpf=l or most of your time on treatments lessons, shopping ball-e. if your ans=er is that you provide loyalty , i have never questioned that. yo=r loyalty however has absolutely nothing to do with the fact that you h=ve not done as i asked, its not dis loyal , its just not what i ask. =IF you don't make any food, its not disloyal, if you dont' buy any=hing for me but tons for you, its not disloayl„ its just not what i want =r need. YOU have to wake up„ you are turning into a spoiled brat, that th=nks the world owes you something. , your expectations, are way out of w=ck.. and if your thank you, at the end of your letter, is supposed to b= funny , it is. otherwise. you say you find y postiotion inconsitant. l=t me be clear . TO be helpful is to do what i ask. if with re sex, it m=an s keeping in shape, thats easy . if its to get shapoos that s easy. if =ts to meddle in things, so you can feel important. Its unhelpful . you say=when i tried to do more, it was no more of what i asked , it was more of w=at you thought you should do... its not helpful..