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i think=it would be more contructive for you and i to see what went right and ask =hat could be done better by both of us , instead of " why did you =end me that email "

I agree this w=uld be more constructive. That's a good question and I should have ask=d it first. TALKING about what works and what doesn't would also be more constructi=e than sending an email asking me to leave. What I don't understand ab=ut that is how you expect another week alone to help the situation after s=eing the result of long breaks was just the opposite every time in the pas=.

I understand you like your free time and so do I but attempting to actually=solve things in this relationship by sending me away for extended periods =f time is clearly counter-productive. I don't know how to have a relat=onship when I am constantly being told to leave the whole state for more t=an just a few days whenever you get the urge. It doesn't work for me. = am still getting over wasting the past 6 weeks and a month shortly before=that. I have only been here 10 days and you ask me to leave for another we=k. This is why I suggested to find a separate place. So you could spend th= 'time alone' and I don't have to keep putting my life on hold=and sit in nyc with nothing constructive to do whenever you feel like bein= alone. The cost is not much higher than my flying back and forth and it c=n be short term so I don't understand the hesitation even considering =he future travel reasoning...

That's my suggestion but if you have a different one I'd like to he=r it. I am happy to discuss this evening what you feel I can do better and=what worked for you.

thank you, we should discuss this all.. you need to decide i= you want the truth.

Of course I do=but you should use your judgement when you deliver it. When you tell B=ll-e she is a good girl and give her a treat after she plays half dead is =t a lie or just a necessary exageration to show her she is on the right tr=ck and encourage her to continue..

the math quesiotn is if she plays half- dead two times, does that make a wh=le dead.