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When you have to operate professionally under a different set of standards than men, you can appreciate why that is frustrating, particularly when you have been doing so over a period of 2 decades....

I am sympathetic. and I, continue to try, not to fall into gender specific criticisms. on the flip side Arianes tirade yesterday could have an exhibit tag on it. - as a gender related offense. :)

When you stack that up against B's offenses, she should get a medal.

agreed , is his behavior male? I think it is just gender neutral. He is a very sick person. I found it awkward to see the pride when she described him as strong. ! and then nothing wrong. but .. .. Emphysema. !!! and to think most people think it would be great to marry a rothschild.