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It's disgusting

And it communicates to him that what he did was okay. That is the fundamental problem with what TW did.

Btw, my guess is that what your crazy woman is saying (albeit not very articulately) is that the $$ means nothing to him and thus is insufficient recompense for whatever harm she has suffered.

Yup

And another thing that really makes me angry is this idea of there being sides. There are no sides: one person was deceptive and manipulative and the other person was not. The end.

Agreed

But the fact that he presented it that way to you demonstrates that he will never accept responsibility for his actions. What the hell did I do to this motherfucker other than be a loyal friend to him?

Ok, I am done now...

I'm getting on plane