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not to sound too woo woo but I think you should first sit down with yourself. and rebuild your self confidence.

I take full responsibility. I know that I was stupid and naive and worse. Trust me, I know that. But I never naive enough to believe that he was going to "dump her" (his words). The only thing I asked of him was to allow me to live in an honest and forthright way, or to leave me alone.

I don't think that gave him the right to lie and take advantage of my stupidity.

agreed, fully. . Im here to help , listen what ever you need. . even if it means taking a few girly punches :)

He has to accept responsibility for all of the lies. If the lies did not happen or did not matter or were not persuasive, then the conclusion is that I was much worse than stupid: I was/am pathetic.

you are trusting. not the same.. I m off the air for a few hours talk after 5

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