Ok

the question was asked imagine if you had your 18 year old daughter , right out of high school , come to your office and began to offer suggestion to harry rich and darren on how they should run your business. ?

Well, they should be pretty annoyed since this teenager had no financial background and suggested how they should run the business instead of just observing, helping and learning how the business works!

The example has little to do with our situation but I am flattered you are comparing me to an 18 year old.

The mattress was a perfect example. It seems you are confusing my honesty and having your best interests in mind with an inability to make decisions and do certain things.

Karen, Doug, Sarah and whoever else was involved just decided not to tell you, use your money and order a different mattress without you knowing the difference ( similar to Lance serving you store-bought eggs ) Apparently this was already done once in the PB house and they were going to do it again on LSJ now.

I was the only one to confirm with you and make sure you get what you like - and instead of a thank you I got yelled at because I didn't give you the ID number before asking a question. You said Karen would never do that, she is experienced, understands how to get these things done and I know nothing about mattresses so no need for me to be involved...

So without me being involved when would you find out you are sleeping on Karen's cheap mattress?

At least I do my best to make sure you get what you like for your house, not my best to do things quickly behind your back and get away with 'serving you Marina market eggs' with a pat on the back.

Don't you thing there is slight chance there are other similar things happening and the idea of my involvement caused such a passionate reaction because you would have a much higher chance of finding out about them...

I don't know how you can say I do very little after stopping me when I tried to do more..

I find your position very inconsistent and controlling; you just want to keep me in my place running mundane errands, keeping a house clean, washing dishes and having a responsibility of a servant but not being able to do more

Holding the fact that you provide for me financially over my head is really not fair. I am not here because of your money or your lifestyle. I am here because of You and I would still be here if we were living in a studio apartment or under a bridge together... Since that is not the case and if I want to be with you I can't afford not to accept your financial support and still keep up with this lifestyle. I already feel guilty about the fact and your holding it against me during arguments really makes it hard to swallow.

To answer your question, I think my unwavering support and loyalty even during this period of time is quite a telling , and hopefully meaningful, sign of my love and appreciation for being able to be a part of the life you lead Thank you.