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Did ███ stay in the apartment or at the house after I left ?

Do you realize it took years for me to get over the lies you told me regarding in the past (being in aspen, taking her to the palace, going to the movies with her..)

I spent a lot of time talking to both nan and christine about it. I used to get sick every time I looked at Mr or even heard her name because it reminded me of those lies. It was not a secret to you or anybody else that I couldn't stand her. Now I was finally at a point where I could trust you not to do that again and I didn't mind having her around. But the moment I

left, you did it again - despite an agreement she was to leave on monday, you decided to change her ticket at the last minute and not even tell me about it until the next day (when I already knew she never came). When I got to NY, she wasn't here and you were not answering your phones.

You don't like being accused of deception yet you don't even care to explain how it is possible that this happened again...this is a tough one for me to ignore...THIS is a very irritated nipple

i do not want to argue with you.. I don't consider worth talking about. I have no feelings for , she is like , i needed help, thats it no more. no less, . i have a monstrous amount of work in progress. I have asked for your help . the garage is a pigstye. I am no further ahead with landscape lights, dock, statue base, the house has dog shit and piss,I have cleaned it up myself 1, and not challenged you. I went through kitchen and house things without you, in an effort not to embarass you. especailly in front of others. since before left on her vacation. you wanted authority , no food, flowers, facial, helper, / i love you, and want you to be happy. I need help to reduce my workload, I think you should re read your emails to me. I asked you to set aside time to talk, you chose not to, . brice valdson, lynn and jojo, need to brought in to help , maybe to try out. story to do local things. kichen doors, etc. As I have tried to explain, an agreement has two parties, you have chosen not to fulfill your part, it is your prerogative, besides making soups, which were great , as you followed the recipe, (a discipline that you abhor ) , healthy snacks, low cholesterol, food, house projects , . I made a point not to argue, it has become silly I get angry, and nothing changes, therefore taking getting angry out of the equation seems to make sense, I have asked that you have a budget, it allows you to see what you spend and on what. it is also a reflection of what actually gets done. you have chosen not to do it. no problem.. I love you , so what am i to do? ,, I need time to get my life in order , I would have hoped having you here would reduce my load ( not that load ). instead of adding stress and conflicts.

Read you email. That is not a response to my email, you are ignoring what I said and just go on about what YOU want and what errands there were to run.. I obviously consider worth talking about. Did she stay at the house?