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All I needed to see was you actually taking a step to do what was important to me .. no naps no movie watching, no dana , no jcnn„ these arc all the same , just this one thing. , jeffrey doing something he detests just to demonstrate tathat he is willing to give up what he believes in. no matter how little he recieves in return.. It is just one more thing. no more no less. you seem content not to deal with your actions. only mine. it is not helpful constructive or fair.

"you hired dana after I WANTED HER TO LEAVE.. " you took naps after WE TALKED ABOUT WHAT I WANTED< - jenna lives at 66 after I ARGUED FOR A YEAR about what I WANTED YOU TO DO.. and in return I did

I was always by your side and I did plenty: however not without fighting you, not without telling you what you ask for is petty and unimportant in the scheme of things, and not without treating your requests as simply an unnecessary way to keep me occupied. And for that I am really sorry. Unfortunately, it was your kind gesture that made me see the difference and not your yelling and nagging so you can throw a tantrum now but it seems obvious that leading by example or just being kind is a more constructive way to communicate than attacking each other...