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All I needed to see was you actually taking a step to do what was important to me .. no naps no movie watching, no dana , no jenn, these are all the same , just this one thing. , jeffrey doing something he detests just to demonstrate toMhat he is willing to give up what he believes in. no matter how little he recieves in return.. It is just one more thing. no more no less. you seem content not to deal with your actions. only mine. it is not helpful constructive or fair.

yes, I read them and its all about what i do , it took a year of arguing before you gave in, you mean i didnt give in as quickly. and you take that to be a bad thing, it is your belief that I should succumb to petty ,behavior based on nothing more than childish jealousies. while all the time ignoring the fact that you do not do much but complain.

"you hired ████ after I WANTED HER TO LEAVE.. " you took naps after WE TALKED ABOUT WHAT I WANTED< -████ lives at 66 after I ARGUED FOR A YEAR about what I WANTED YOU TO DO.. and in return I did...........................................

Other people did more with no fightingwhatsoever, none, . that is the ugly truth. not only have i been consistant about your doing little and receiving much, but you feel better , by making other people feel worse.

you mean to ask you to actually look at your behavior is not constructive. re how you feel I just thought that you would endeavor to feel better. , why else would you ask for such things.. so you could feel worse.. maybe. ----those are the only two choices. as i said the other day, have you asked yourself.. MAYBE just maybe, has he been right all along, .. try and see how the pieces fit,

read what you have written, you honestly belive that you should have the ultimate decision on who i hire, who i give an apt to, who i let stay in my house. these are not your " needs" . its my restrictions. your previous shrinks asked what role you were going to perform as opposed to give excuses why you could ,would or should not.. it is still the same.. The fact that you do little is not strange or unreasonble to me., it is merely fact.

Not at all. Again, I ant only saying it makes the situation surprisingly nice when you make things clear to these girls. The fact you think i do little and some of the requests you make are strange and unreasonable to me. not to you. And what i was trying to tell you was that instead of trying to explain why I disagree and fighting about it, you showed me yesterday that I can just do the things you need because they arc obviously important to you, even though I may not understand why. The feeling of having your needs met without a struggle is too nice and i certainly don't want to be the one to deprive you of it.

I am being nice here but you choose to ignore the fact I am agreeing with you and keep attacking mc, i am tired and i am going to bed.