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Ok, you arc upset.

Please remember you offered to do this last night so don't tell me I forced you into doing something you detest. I don't think I was forcefull at all...you offered a call, I said why not an email. I couldn't believe you really did something that thoughtful and selfless so I asked to see it. I said thank you many times because I know you did it for me and I know you didn't really understand what it meant or agreed with the idea behind it but you still did it. Don't attack me because of it now, take the credit. Frankly, it was a much better lesson than trying to argue with me or nag about my flaws. I got the message.

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the point is . I try and actually do what i can... when it comes to you , you refuse over and over. only thinking about yourself . I am not attacking you. at all. i am trying to get you to look in the mirror and see what i and everyone else sees. I have done hundreds of things that i totally disagree with , to placate you. In fact alomost every day or at least every weekend. what you now describe as thoughtful and selfless, started years ago when you decided that you didn't want around,, No one is at the house unless you agree, I eat the shitiest of food, and lead a life of a bus driver , with the same exact motivation that i had when i sent the email, I DO IT///// , v, sox, ......you do not. THink of my reaction with the email and yours with sox

I had previously asked whether you wanted to be in the house wiht so you could see for yourself , you have decided that the help i asked for was petty. Can i get you anything , nannys head massage. sue's tea, was not important. though I said these are the small things i d appreciate. then when others gladly do as i ask , you feel insecure. you feel no compunction to spoling my birthday, because you don't like | spoling my highly anticipated trip to new york, because you overhear me talking on the phone and i according to you, said baby in kind tones. so you threw a tantrum. no sex fun, no hug, you waniked out without saying goodbye. and today not only ask me to do as you put it petty , things (petty is trite , trivial, what you asked was for me to transmit your words as they were coming out of my mouth, having me do something i strongly detest, which i did immediately without argumnet, and even then, you couldn't stop, and had to ask for proof, and then more ( and you wonder where the idea that you are a spoiled brat comes from„ ) . I had asked if you wanted a conference call. the fact that you take offense to the way people perceive you, you attribute to me. the fact and ive told you this mupltiple time, the more I say to defend you and your behavior, the more i say , no, she really is a help, no, she is my girlfriend, you will be seen to be weaker rather than stronger,if i was standing next to you and you told evryone in the most sincere of terms , doesn't jeffrey look in great shape. would do nothing more that call attention to the fact that i am not, and suggest that i am in need of bullshit.

almostevery day by your description , what you call thoughful and selfless . no naps. sitting with others on the sofa. noMIMMI the princess, no one in bed beside you watching movies. why did i offer a can, ? because I was unhappy, because wanted to start a fight , IN RESPONSE IN RESPONSE . what is it you don't understand

Yes and it worked. I understand that. I am not arguing, I am giving you a compliment and telling you I can see I didn't do that. But not all of your examples are accurate and some are exaggerated so all this talking in circles in unnecessary and counter-productive. All I needed to see was you actually taking a step to do what was important to me ( which is to explain to these girls you have no emotional interest in them, despite your affectionate behavior towards them ) by sending that email. And if you could get over your stubbornness and do that than I can do anything you need from me as well. Thank You