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i think it would be more contructive for you and i to see what went right and ask what could be done better by both of us , instead of " why did you send me that email "

I agree this would be more constructive. That's a good question and I should have asked it first.

• TALKING about what works and what doesn't would also be more constructive than sending an email asking me to leave. What I don't understand about that is how you expect another week alone to help the situation after seeing the result of long breaks was just the opposite every time in the past.

• I understand you like your free time and so do I but attempting to actually solve things in this relationship by sending me away for extended periods of time is clearly counter-productive. I don't know how to have a relationship when I am constantly being told to leave the whole state for more than just a few days whenever you get the urge. It doesn't work for me. I am still getting over wasting the past 6 weeks and a month shortly before that. I have only been here 10 days and you ask me to leave for another week. This is why I suggested to find a separate place. So you could spend the 'time alone' and I don't have to keep putting my fife on hold and sit in nyc with nothing constructive to do whenever you feel like being alone. The cost is not much higher than my flying back and forth and it can be short term so I don't understand the hesitation even considering the future travel reasoning... That's

• my suggestion but if you have a different one Pd like to hear it. I am happy to discuss this evening what you feel I can do better and what worked for you.

thank you, we should discuss this all.. you need to decide if you want the truth.

Of course I do but you should use your judgement when you deliver it. When you tell Ball-e she is a good girl and give her a treat after she plays half dead is it a lie or just a necessary exageration to show her she is on the right track and encourage her to continue..