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Hi Jeffrey,

My husband had another breakdown tonight --(smashing through windows and doors etc)-- This is the second time that I've seen him do this.

I can't be in this environment with a baby and so I will move out tomorrow.

I was wondering if you might have an empty rental apartment available until my own apartment opens up in October? If not, please no problem at all, I will go to my brother's in the country. I wanted to stay in the city though since the baby's nanny is here and it's easier for me workwise etc.

But again, no worry at all if you can't do this-- you are certainly going through a lot.

My husband is a wonderful person and his breakdowns have nothing to do with us as a couple. It is due rather to his lack of sleep from the baby and the fact that he suffers from bi-polar. When he is not woken up, he is fine, delightful and does a tremendous job of maintaining a healthy routine.

This is only the second time that I've witnessed him breakdown--I am shocked by it and obviously cannot be in the same environment with a young baby. I would like him stay in his apartment to be as stable as possible.

thank you for your thoughts,

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