Re: Ty and

Hi.

-tonight I think you eat the left over pork stir fry and ty will eat pasta and meatballs.

-do you want to invite the Crawford's (iinluding ethan) over sat Dec 22? Maybe another couple I'm just not sure who. Or more? I'd be up for 3 couples.

• I want to discuss last night. I really think it 'limp have been handled differently. I don't know what you discussed with fter I went to bed. I would like to know. I think ty deserved to talk with his friends for 20 min(when they are all `on line' also 8:30-8:50pm) then study and read in bed to fall asleep.. Giving ty a little bit of space is not a bad thing. He will be a happier person for it. We demanded of him a lot yesterday and he got no reward (reward in his eyes would be 20 min to chat with his friends). He deserves it. We need perameters. If he got to chat he would then have to study. Throwing a $1200 phone out the door does not show Illgood judgment, behavior or a great way of handling a situation. I realize you were trying to make a point but had it broken or froze-then what? almost threw the big flash light into our foyer and would have thrown it hard too. I'm glad he had the sense not to do it. (But after watching you it would be hard to blame him) Another thing- we are always on top of ty to get himself organized with friends and that is what he wanted to do. Make dates to do stuff after school this week. This being said he also needs to allot time for homework and studying. Managing being a good parent is hard and I think you do a great job most the time. But last night was not good. What was the end result last night? I gave ty his phone this morning as we left the house. He seemed in good spirits. And he liked the chocolate Chex cereal. We had that already (I did not buy it yesterday) I think he must have not seen it last week. It is low in sugar

wow. ok. I agree with you completely .you seem to think I don't, but I am on board. I do not want a looser son. Agree he lives quite well and really doesn't even know it.

I think we need to all revisit this tonight.