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happy to be a sounding board, though obviously i don't have all the facts .my negotiation strategy would be to Get the name ,but leave him his dignity. - I am totally aware of the fact that you are being pulled in many directions at the same time. You still need to be your own first priority , for many reasons.

I. who acts for you if you are temp incapacitated.?

• 2 who decides your health decisions

• 3 who is legally resposnible for the girls decisions if something were to happen to both you and Benjamin,

• 4, who is respoesble for the mgmgt of hinds, the legal decisions. the bank, each asset. the charity 5 Is your will up do date? who gets your personal things jeweliry, paintings etc which girl gets what

6 I suggest giving them all some opportunity to choose a charity now. even for small amounts. 7. as your cousins will attack, I suggest some poision pills in co structure, maybe even strutting change of control options now. maybe puts and calls on share swaps.

8 your personla trainer health person is reaady when you are,