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the question was asked imagine if you had your 18 year old daughter , right out ofhigh school , come to your office and began to offer suggestion to harry rich and darren on how they should run your business. ?
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Well, they should be pretty annoyed since this teenager had no financial background and suggested how they should run the business instead ofjust observing, helping and learning how the business works!
The example has little to do with our situation but I am flattered you are comparing me to an 18 year old.
The mattress was a perfect example. It seems you are confusing my honesty and having your best interests in mind with an inability to make decisions and do certain things. MIDoug, and order a Sarah different and mattress whoever without else was you involved knowing just the decided difference not ( to similar tell you, to Lance use your serving money you store-bought eggs ) Apparently this was already done once in the PB house and they were going to do it again on LSJ now.
going to do it again on ESS now. I was the only one to confirm with you and make sure you get what you like - and instead of a thank you I got yelled at because I didn't give you the ID number before asking a question. You said [REDACTED] would never do that, she is experienced, understands how to get these things done and I know nothing about mattresses so no need for me to be involved...
So without me being involved when would you find out you arc sleeping on cheap mattress9
At least I do my best to make sure you get what you like for your house, not my best to do things quickly behind your back and get away with 'serving you Marina market eggs' with a pat on the back.
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- Don't you thing there is slight chance there are other similar things happening and the idea ofmy involvement caused such a passionate reaction because you would have a much higher chance of finding out about them...
I don't know how you can say I do very little after stopping me when I tried to do more..
I find your position very inconsistent and controlling; you just want to keep me in my place running mundane errands, keeping a house clean, washing dishes and having a responsibility of a servant but not being able to do more
Holding the fact that you provide for me financially over my head is really not fair. I am not here because of your money or your lifestyle. I am here because of You and I would still be here if we were living in a studio apartment or under a bridge together... Since that is not the case and ifI want to be with you I can't afford not to accept your financial support and still keep up with this lifestyle. I already feel guilty about the fact and your holding it against me during arguments really makes it hard to swallow.
To answer your question, I think my unwavering support and loyalty even during this period of time is quite a telling , and hopefully meaningful, sign ofmy love and appreciation for being able to be a part of the life you lead
Thank you.
you still avoid the quesiton „ what do you do. i don't hold the fact that i support you over you head, i ask over and over, what his that you actually do..
with regard the mattress, its was just find out which matress was where. and the details, A simple and clear question.. all else is silly.. you say its silly after stopping you, that was last week, and i refieterate , i just want you to do as i asl to oprahize the fact that i ask you to do something is now controlling. is another example of b00000shit, WHAT do you actuality do.. in return for that lifestyle, which i do believe is not that important to you. do you spend time trying to be helpful or most of your time on treatments lessons, shopping ball-e. if your answer is that you provide loyalty , i have never questioned that. your loyalty however has absolutely nothing to do with the fact that you have not done as i asked, its not dis loyal , its just not what i ask. IF you don't make any food, its not disloyal, if you dont' buy anything for me but tons for you, its not disloayl„ its just not what i want or need. YOU have to wake up„ you are turning into a spoiled brat, that thinks the world owes you something. , your expectations, are way out of wack.. and if your thank you, at the end of your letter, is supposed to be funny , it is. otherwise. you say you find y postiotion inconsitant. let me be clear . TO be helpful is to do what i ask. if with re sex, it mean s keeping in shape, thats easy . if its to get shapoos that s easy. if its to meddle in things, so you can feel important. Its unhelpful. you say when i tried to do more, it was no more of what i asked , it was more of what you thought you should do... its not helpful..
