10. Feminist asks Clarisse why she's being generous to Strauss, on a feminist thread
deconstructing PUAs: http://www.feministe.us/blog/archives/2011/03/25/1-totally- interviewed-the-worlds-most-famous-pickup-artist/ - comment-357169 -- [back]
11. Anti- feminist doesn't like Strauss either:
schwy zer-and-spengler -- [back]
12. History of Ms. Magazine includes the erasure of BDSM: http://nymag.com/print/?/news/features/ms-magazine-2011-11/ -- [back]
13. Jaclyn Friedman on how consent is not a lightswitch: http://(www.amplifyyourvoice.org/u/Yes_ Means Yes/2010/11/9/Consent-Is-Not-A-
Lightswitch -- [back] 14. Salon interview with Tracy Clark-Flory: http://www.salon.com/2011/10/30/a_sex_guide_for_todays_girls/singleton/ -- [back]
15. Discussion of forcing explicit communication on a feminist BDSM blog:
http://pervocracy.blogspot.com/2011/07/how-to-not-be-creepy.html? showComment=1310928149621 - c6917844665418677680 -- [back]
16. Feminist site on sexual violence emphasizes non-verbal communication:
http://www.uwyo.edu/stop/Get Educated/sexualviolence.html -- [back]
17. Feminist argues that "PUAs rape women" http://www.feministe.us/blog/archives/201 1/03/25 /i-totall -interviewed-the-worlds-most-
famous-pickup-artist/ - comment-357951 -- [back]
18. PUA claims that "the first two ‘no's don't mean much":
a, -- [back]
19. David Shade on LMR: The Secrets of Female Sexuality, by David Shade. David Shade Corporation, 2007. -- [back]
20. Mark Manson advises respecting LMR: http:/Awww.practicalpickup.com/the- cheerleader -- [back]
21. PUA Detox: http://www.practicalpickup.com/the-guide-to-a-pua-detox -- [back]
TK OK ok
S&M: The Strange Binary of Dominance and Submission
1. An article I wrote about submissive skills, and their value: http://clarissethorn.com/blog/2012/01/16/submissive-skills/ -- [back]
te ok ok
Feminism: My Mom's Rape Story, and A Confused Relationship with Feminism
1. Susan Faludi's article on feminism's "Electra complex":
http://harpers. org/archive/2010/10/0083140 -- [back]
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