directory/kap-directory-homepage.html -- [back]
3. Betty Dodson's video "Did I Orgasm?": http://www. youtube.com/v/rkCihT 1mkme¢ -- [back]
4. Our definitions of orgasm are fairly narrow: http://sexuality.about.com/od/anatomyresponse/a/what_is_orgasm.htm -- [back] ok oe
Boundaries: Orgasms Aren't My Favorite Part Of Sex, and My Chastity Urge
1. Deliberately limiting orgasms for a more amorous relationship:
http://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/too-many-orgasms/ -- [back]
2. Scarleteen discusses women and "squirting" orgasms: http://www.scarleteen.com/article/advice/squirt_on_ female ejaculation -- [back] ok oe
Evolution: Sexual Openness: Two Ways To Encourage It
1. Comstock Films makes documentaries about real couples and how they have sex:
http://comstockfilms.com/ -- [back] 2. CineKink, "the really alternative film festival": http://cinekink.com -- [back] ok
Relationships: Fear, Loathing, and S&M Sluthood in San Francisco
1. My blog post "There It Is": http://clarissethorn.wordpress.com/2010/10/28/litquote- storytime-there-it-is/ -- [back]
2. The Sutro Baths, extraordinary ruins in San Francisco:
http://www. flickr.com/photos/vicster/28 1635523 1/in/set-72157607093679758/ -- [back]
3.A blog post I wrote on the perils of vanilla-but- -questioning dudes:
dont- date-vanilla- but-questioning-men/ -- [back]
4. The "lost" 21st chapter of A Clockwork Orange: http://www.visual- memory.co.uk/amk/doc/0062.html -- [back]
te Kk ok
S&M: BDSM As A Sexual Orientation, and Complications of the Orientation Model
1. BDSM-phobic thread on a radical feminist blog: http://rageagainstthemanchine.com/2009/02/07/please-somebody-come-and-defend- kinkcom/ -- [back]
2. BDSM-related discrimination case and orientation notes from Charles Moser:
http://www.xtra.ca/public/Vancouver/BDSM_lifestyler_unfit_to_drive_a_limo_police- 6577.aspx -- [back]
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